Ubuntu

The southern African ethical idea, often glossed as "I am because we are," which holds that a person becomes a person only through other people, making community, mutual care, and shared dignity the ground of ethics rather than the lone individual — at once rooted in older southern African relational ethics, a touchstone of post-apartheid moral life, and a modern philosophical term whose popularity has made it contested.

A Zulu saying runs: umuntu ngumuntu ngabantu — a person is a person through other persons. It sounds gentle, almost like a proverb to hang on a wall. But it makes a hard claim. You do not arrive in the world already a full human being. You become one only by being raised, taught, corrected, and cared for by others, and by doing the same for them. On this view, the lone individual is not the starting point of ethics. It is a fiction. This is ubuntu, and a wounded nation once asked it to help heal a country.